confidence and kindness are two of the most important features any person should have. Think of the people who we idolise so just as they sparkle with a confidence and a love for themselves.
Bring yourself to a mirror in your room as you read this. Look at yourself without scrutiny and think of how magical it is to have those odd little features of whatever your insecurity may be. If you believe in God, think you must be special as he spent time creating you to have your little impact on the world. Every time you stand in front of a mirror look at all the beautiful things you see. If you constantly tell yourself that you are ugly then you will always lack confidence. To love yourself is rare in this society but when you do you have already won.
Another tip that I have is simply to keep your head held high, understand that if people try to hurt you then they are lacking so much confidence. Pity them, they will never know how it feels to truly love themselves. And to love yourself is a wonderful adventure, hard at times but so unbelievably rewarding.
To be confident you should work on accepting yourself, changing what you don't like and loving the things that can't be changed. To work on yourself and learn lessons in life is something I'm so grateful for as it makes you realise how much you know and how valuable you really are.
To be confident you should dare to
do the things that you are the most afraid of. You have to prove your strength to yourself. To be confident you should love always , fear nothing and understand that nobody can stand a chance at bringing down someone who loves themselves.
It will be a long journey but a wonderful one.
|tea and a read|